How To Make a Man Want You - 7 Fiery Tips To Spur His Affection!
What a beautiful feeling it is to feel absolutely adored, wanted, and appreciated by your man. The way they cherish every thing that you do for them and make you feel like the only girl in the world!If this isn't you - and you are trying to inspire this kind of genuine affection from your man, it is possible. All you need to know are the 7 top tips to make him realize just what he has with you - and what he'd be missing out on if either of you chose to separate.
Tip #1: Leave a Scent Trail -
Most men become infatuated with the thrill of the chase; no matter how competitive he may be, if he finds you attractive and wants to learn more about you - he will pursue!
To do this correctly, you need to let on that you are interested in him as well. Do this in a subtle manner, such as being friendly with him; smile, wink, laugh at his jokes, etc.
Then, when he moves in a little closer - move away just a little farther.
Meaning, when he calls to invite you on a date or asks if he can chill with you some time, hesitate on giving him an official answer until you figure out how your 'other' plans will fit in first.
By leaving a scent trail in this manner (luring him in then pushing forth on your own) - will have him dying to make you his girl and to be a part of your active lifestyle.
Tip #2: Think For Yourself -
You shouldn't need anyone to think or make decisions for you. If he notices your independence and the beliefs that you hold close, he will admire and appreciate your passion.
Express your interests, voice your opinions, and have a personality!
A great way of doing this would be to offer suggestions when out on a date. Instead of saying "I don't know" when he asks what you want to do or where you want to eat - offer some choices, and suggest a place you love to go or somewhere that serves your favorite food.
As long as you both compromise on the end result, he will completely admire your ability to voice what you like instead of being 'another boring date'.
Tip #3: Be a 'Tough-Cookie'
Having an air of confidence about your person is irresistibly sexy! As long as you don't come off as cocky or conceited; a well-developed sense of self-worth is enough to drag any good-looking man under your charm.
Be confident and comfortable with every choice you make, every action you take, and every word you utter - this will help alleviate regret, and open up a wealth of opportunity for your love life!
Tip #4: Pop That Bubble -
Meaning, get out of your comfort zone and try something new and spontaneous for a change! Men are attracted to someone who has a genuine love for life and whom is interested in so much more than a good man to complete her.
Take the initiative and invite him to do something neither of you have ever tried before.
This will create a long-lasting memory and bond the two of you together in support during a time of uncertainty.
Tip #5: Treat Him Like Your Own -
We've all heard the phrase "Treat others as you want to be treated in return", and it still holds true today!
Treat him with the kind of closeness that you are yearning for. Do you love getting those sweet surprise hugs from behind first thing in the morning? Do you love the way he runs his fingers across your skin for no apparent reason?
These little acts of adoration go a long way - do these for him and you will soon start to see a real improvement in the way he treats you in return!
Tip #6: Embrace His Off-The-Wall Traits -
Don't try to change your man, love him for who he is - exactly as is, or don't pursue a relationship at all. The things that interest him and put a smile on his face is what makes him happy, so be happy for him!
Even if you disagree with some of his hygiene habits or his old decrepit baseball glove collection; these are what make him - 'him'.
There is always room for positive encouragement and constructive criticism if you feel obligated to voice your opinion, but if it isn't life-threatening, just learn to enjoy his little quirks.
Tip #7: Slow Things Down Some -
If true love is meant to be, it shall be. Don't force the relationship to happen any quicker than is necessary. Keep your time together light and carefree, enjoy the moments you spend with each other right now, today - instead of focusing on what should or could be doing years from now.
This will take a huge pressure and burden off of both your shoulders, and once he realizes you are in love with who he is and the time you have with him, he will quickly begin to feel the same and reciprocate your adoring behavior!
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